Sunday, November 22, 2009

THE Muslim Internet policy - solutions for kids and dad

To address pornography and social networking, a policy and a few technologies must be in place. The technology alone is not the solution. But keep in mind the greater threat for children will be mobile devices.

POLICY: The owner or admin of all electronic devices should be the mother (in most cases). yes, tech geek dads must relinquish control to their wives.

Technology must include the following:
Laptop/Desktop
  1. Filtering Software - prevent access to inappropriate sites
  2. Accountability software - not just a logger, track every internet site you visit and sends a weekly report to your accountability partner. It removes the anonymity. If someone attempts to uninstall the software, the accountability partner is notified.
Great resources - http://www.x3watch.com/
http://www.no-porn.com/resources.html
List of accountability software - http://www.urbanministry.org/wiki/accountability-software

Mobile
  1. Remove access to Safari, Youtube, App Store (through app store they can get another browser). for details http://www.quittingpornguy.com/2009/03/quitting-iphone-porn.html
  2. Install Filtered browsers for iphone (Example: http://www.bsecure.com/)
  3. Install accountbility software for iphone (waiting for x3watch and convenanteyes to get approved by apple)

Conclusion: One person should have the ultimate authority on every device, including mobile. Make it mom or some other trustworthy person. Accountability software sends them weekly or biweekly reports of chats, emails and sites visited.


Saturday, November 21, 2009

Golden Principles of Raising Children

By Imam Ghazali Rahmatullahi Alayhee
Translated into English By Irfan Hasan

For the entire article click here

Topics Include:
  • HARMS OF EXCESSIVE SCOLDING
  • ETIQUETTE OF SLEEPING
  • PROHIBITION OF ARROGANCE AND PRIDE

Friday, November 13, 2009

AMAZING article about parenting

May Allah reward the sister who sent me this link to an absolutely fabulous article. Makes sure to read till the end and note the final point.
http://muslimvillage.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=51418